Healing a Love Relationship, by Dr. Paul Leon Masters

Audio version read by Rev. Steven Lane Taylor, B.Msc.

Healing a love relationship is one of the most important things you can do in your life. After all, love is life’s most precious human experience. When the love relationship in your life is right, the world is a much better place to be in, with the sky looking bluer and the grass greener! When the love in your life is in a negative state, it can cause great emotional and even physical pain. No emotional turmoil seems to be greater than that which one may experience in regard to love.

When a love relationship is in trouble, there is no doubt that a healing of some kind should take place. The need for the healing of a personal relationship can manifest at various stages of a relationship, for example, before great involvement, definitely during involvement, and certainly after a relationship ends.

Difficulties in the early stage of a relationship require healing, or the relationship will be destined to go no further. Quite often the need for healing comes from negative feelings carried over from previous relationships, where the new person in one’s life symbolizes negative characteristics of a previous lover or spouse.

Healing a love relationship should take place on all levels; physical, mental and spiritual. One without the other two is not a full healing. Hence, the negativity is carried on to future relationships. Of the three, healing on a spiritual level of one’s being is the most important, because it is a soul-to-soul love that is the most profound love possible.

Carrying around an unhealed love relationship can also adversely affect the health of the body. If a person is chronically ill in some way, it is vital to be certain that all love relationships have been healed.

If you are in need of healing a love relationship, turn it over to God. The sooner you do, the sooner you will experience relief through divine healing, or healing from God. Really turning it over to God completely and wholeheartedly can truly invoke God’s inner peace. When you turn something over to God, realize that the healing will come about according to God’s Will for the relationship.

If God feels that you have gained all you can from a relationship, then it will be God’s Will to heal any ill feelings and let you and the other person part in a positive manner. Often a person who is in need of healing in a love relationship will not immediately turn it over to God, feeling that the person’s personal ego will be able to restore health and healing to a relationship.

I advise people to turn it over to God at the very first sign of a need for healing. This is before it gets out of hand or has the opportunity to fester and become deep-seated in the mind, making it more difficult to uproot and heal.

Meditation can be a key to healing. Just as meditation can promote physical healing and create well-being in the body, it can certainly do that in the mind and the soul. Every time you meditate, you tap into the natural healing intelligence of your body, or God’s presence.

Thoughts and emotions are energy frequencies that are subject to healing when brought under the influence of the natural healing energies released by God during every practice of meditation. Negative feelings and emotions associated with a love relationship are sublimated into positive energy factors, thus bringing about a healing within you.

Because there is usually a psychic energy interplay between you and your lover, as you are healed through meditation, so, too, are they healed to a lesser or greater extent. A telepathic exchange between energy factors in your unconscious and theirs can stimulate the healing process between the two of you. Apart from any psychic interplay, there is greater peace and clarity when you are with a lover as a result of meditating, which aids the healing process.

The eyes are the windows of the soul, as the saying goes. When real love exists between two people, love exists in the very depth of their souls. During any difficulty in a love relationship, that love continues, deep within their souls. During any time when healing is necessary, suggest that both of you sit quietly and stare into each other’s eyes.

Whether it’s a twinkle or an energy evident in the eyes, as you look into each other’s eyes, if real love exists between you, there will be a reaction of some kind. Whether both of you break into a smile, or suddenly find yourselves compelled to embrace, some positive healing reaction will take place. Just sit quietly until it does, giving the love for each other that is in both your souls the opportunity to rise to conscious awareness.

God is love, and God’s love manifests as light in a spiritual realm. One of the grand mysteries of life is that human beings are multi-dimensional and exist simultaneously in different dimensions. In the realm of God’s light, you visualize your higher counterpart and your lover’s higher counterpart in an embrace. The embrace signifies or symbolizes that all is healed between you. It signifies that God’s healing love, as light, has healed your very souls. Further, it signifies that only goodness and love exist around you and within you both, in your visualization.

This is a very powerful visualization and should only be used when true love exists in both parties. Otherwise, you would be attempting to psychically coerce the other person, which would cause the visualization to fail, since you cannot have untruth in God’s light or presence.

Dr. Paul Leon Masters

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